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Tuesday, August 31, 2010

The Right Way To Court Russian Brides

By Lera Cupidonova

Since the trend of Russian brides started, it has been viewed with much controversy. In addition, much misunderstanding surrounds the topic. One such misunderstanding is the notion that Russian women cannot find men and are desperate for a rich man. This is not the case at all. Most ladies from the Russian Federation are all highly educated and beautiful and merely want for a better future for themselves with men who will love them.

Many of these ladies are young and want to escape from the alcohol abuse and poverty that is rife in their part of the world. Unemployment is a big problem in Russia and women outnumber men by thousands. They see that they could make a better life for themselves in a first world country. They do not merely want to use a man as an escape, on the contrary, they are looking for love and are prepared to get to know a man and learn to love him.

These beauties from the former Soviet Union want security, peace and love in their lives. They believe this is only achievable with men outside of their land of birth. The men are seeking a beautiful looking wife. Internet dating sites are usually the hunting ground for this purpose. For a long lasting relationship there does need to be areas of compatibility. For this reason the couple need to get to know about each other.

Time should be spent writing to each and identifying and confirming the roles of a man and a woman in a relationship. The man should not lie or misrepresent himself in any way to the woman. Down the road, this could lead to unwanted problems.

Women that are in their twenties will be looking for adventure and fun in the new country they are going to live in. They will want to do more than clean the house and spend all day in the house. She may wish to study and begin a career. A man who marries younger women may have to sacrifice in certain areas. Younger women are generally quite feisty and not always keen to heed advice given by the older partner.

Occasionally there may be unrealistic expectations on the part of the lady. Dreams of a knight in shiny armor can cause a fair degree of disappointment when reality sets in. Meeting the man for the first time could bring her crashing down to earth.

The success stories of these marriages are many. All marriages take work to succeed and these are no different. As the cultures differ significantly, there may be more work required to make this marriage successful. A man that is aware of his strengths and weaknesses will be able to help the lady understand what is on the cards for her. This will set the tone for a loving and respectful relationship. The man needs to be clear in his mind what it is that he is looking for.

Spend much time courting her via letters. Many of these Russian brides have access to technology such as Internet and email and will happily converse with you. Eventually, you will be expected to go over there to collect your fiance using a fiance passport. Go for a short vacation to ensure that you are indeed compatible before taking her away from everything she knows into a strange and foreign land.

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